Marriage-Coded

Rethinking dating in a digital age

Published on Inkwell • Mar 19

The Reading Rebellion 2026: A complete guide

The Peter Effect, restoring brain circuits, snuggeries, and book lists for everyone

Mar 12 • Ruth Gaskovski and Peco

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February 2026

The Annual Digital Fast: How to regain cognitive liberty, and keep it

Your personal guide to our annual Communal Digital Fast

Feb 18 • Ruth Gaskovski and Peco

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A Guide to Surviving the Great Forgetting: How to (re)train your memory

For those of you who prefer to read off paper rather than the screen, we have converted the post into an easily printable pdf file here.

Feb 13 • Ruth Gaskovski and Peco

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When gossip rules the world, and snakes eat their own tales

The other day I talked to a man who believes the Earth is flat.

Published on Pilgrims in the Machine • Feb 4

January 2026

On Letters: How (and why) to write for an audience of one

The written thumbprint, famous excerpts (what to write), and a "Library of Letters"

Jan 28 • Ruth Gaskovski

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The Nursery & the Machine: From IVG to internet tirades

How to safeguard and restore our most fundamental connections

Jan 7 • Ruth Gaskovski and Peco

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December 2025

Can Humanity Trust TIME's "Person" of the Year?

From blackboards to black vestments, experts' "blah blah" words, inevitability, and digital theophanies

Dec 16, 2025 • Peco and Ruth Gaskovski

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The Generative Life: Learning Begins at Home

For those of you who prefer to read off paper rather than the screen, we have converted the post into an easily printable pdf file.

Dec 5, 2025 • Peco and Ruth Gaskovski

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November 2025

First Things & A Simple and Sane Christmas

What to skip, what to show up for, and how to keep things slow

Nov 28, 2025 • Ruth Gaskovski and Peco

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A (Visual) Human Creed: How to Unmachine Your Life, the Universe, and Everything

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Nov 17, 2025 • Peco and Ruth Gaskovski

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Doomer Optimism Gathering Keynote Address: A (Visual) Human Creed

How to Unmachine Your Life, the Universe, and Everything

Nov 17, 2025 • Peco and Ruth Gaskovski

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